My Truth Creates Space for Miracles

Living in your truth sounds simple, but it’s often one of the hardest things we’ll ever do. For me, it’s been a lifelong journey, one that’s taken me from silence and fear to a place where authenticity…even though sometimes still a little “scary”….. feels more like freedom!

I grew up in a strict religion where individuality wasn’t encouraged. I couldn’t share the truth of who I really was or who I wanted to be. Honestly, I probably wasn’t even sure who I wanted to be… because if your thoughts, goals, or desires didn’t align with the religion, you kept them to yourself.

As a teenager, I was terrified of being shunned and losing my friends and family if I expressed what I really thought, or lived my life how I really wanted to. Stepping outside the box wasn’t allowed, and the shame, guilt, and feeling of being “different” was huge. So, I learned to conform, and learned to lie, until one day I walked away at the age of 17 carrying a backpack with some underwear and makeup…I guess they were the two most important things to have! haha

Shifting into truth has been far from easy. I accepted so many things that didn’t align with me… relationships that didn’t serve me, choices that weren’t mine, versions of myself that were never true. For so long, I didn’t even know anymore what my truths were and I had completely buried that younger version of me that fought so hard for her freedom to live for her truth.

And then when I started on my spiritual path, it didn’t always feel authentic, or truthful to me. Part of me felt like I wasn’t “spiritual enough,” like I had to measure up to this image of what being spiritual was supposed to look like. But if I left the religious box I grew up in only to put myself into a spiritual box with new standards and guidelines, I’d still be living by someone else’s rules. What I really needed was to live up to my own truths, my passions and my desires….to live this human experience in my own way.

Even when I began the work I do now, sharing it publicly felt terrifying. Energy work, the spiritual practices I love, even the way I see the world….none of it would have ever been accepted by my family. The beliefs I hold now are the very things I was taught to avoid, or even fear.

So every time I posted, there was this voice in my head: What if they see this? What will they say? What if they judge me? It didn’t matter that I was in my forties with little to no relationship with most of them anymore. That fear was so deeply programmed into me, it followed me and was keeping me small.

That’s what programming does, it keeps us small. It teaches us to stay quiet, to play safe, to blend in, even long after we’ve left the environment that created it.

For me, that fear would show up in different ways. Sometimes I could feel it in my body….I would feel tense, get a headache, feel anxious, get that sensation of wanting to shrink so I wouldn’t be seen. Other times it looked like no motivation at all. (Yep, that old freeze response.) I would avoid doing the very things that would grow my business, because it felt easier to hide than to face the fear of speaking my truths. But hiding kept me small, and it kept others small too, because I wasn’t putting myself out there to support them with the work that I know changes lives…it is the same work that has powerfully transformed my own!

I’m not going to tell you that at this moment I’m 100% putting myself out there and screaming from the rooftops…. but I’m almost there. My body feels so much more at ease when I’m authentic with myself and with the world, and what’s even more awesome are the miracles that have unfolded.

• I have deeper, more meaningful connections!

• I feel way more free!

• I run a business I love!

• I’ve attracted aligned friendships and relationships that actually see me!

• Money and opportunities flow in at just the right time!

• My health and energy have shifted ….I feel lighter and calmer because I’m no longer carrying so many layers of what other people think I should be!

• One of the best things is my kids speak their truths freely, their desires, dreams, and ideas without the fear of judgment…and they are such cool humans because of it.

• And one of the greatest miracles of all….I get to guide and inspire clients to live truthfully, to release what doesn’t serve them, and to create lives that feel more joy!

My experiences have taught me that when we don’t feel worthy, we hide our truth. We convince ourselves that our desires are “too much,” our dreams “don’t matter,” and our voices “aren’t needed.”

But worthiness is the foundation that allows truth to take up space. When you believe you are worthy, you stop shrinking. You realize: my truth isn’t wrong, it’s mine. And from that place, miracles happen.

When I say “My Truth,” here’s what I mean: it’s the authentic expression of who I am, it’s my values, my desires, my beliefs, and my inner knowing. It is not conforming to outside expectations or continuing to accept the programming. It’s the space where my self-worth and my voice meet, allowing me to live in alignment with what feels real and right for me.

If you’re scared to speak your truth, start small. It doesn’t have to be a giant leap.

Maybe it looks like:

• Saying “no” when you mean no, instead of automatically saying yes.

• Admitting to yourself what you really want, even if you don’t tell anyone else yet.

• Sharing something honest with a trusted friend and noticing how your body feels afterward.

• Writing down the truths you’re afraid to say out loud…letting them exist on paper first.

The more you practice intentionally, the easier it gets. You’ll notice your body relax, your shoulders drop, and your breath becomes easier. With each small step, you’ll feel lighter, freer, and more like yourself.

And here’s the thing…every time you choose truth, you build self-worth. You send a signal to yourself that says, “my voice matters, my desires matter, I matter" , and that’s when the miracles start to unfold!

Much love to you

Erin

P.S I’ve seen miracles from living in truth, in my own life, in my kids’ lives, and in the lives of my clients, and I want you to see them too!

That’s why inside A Month of Worthiness, we explore what it means to live from truth, to anchor into your worth, and to create the space for miracles to unfold.

Your truth matters, and the world needs it.

Living your truth creates miracles